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+1 DING DING DING!  My DH would get a lot more from me if he didn't A) try to initiate when I am already falling asleep, B) make a fucking effort to hire a babysitter or schedule dates and B) not stay up after me or sleep in on the weekend when I am up at 7am with my son.  If you want sex, get the fuck up before I have a preschooler running around.  Otherwise, quit bitching.  There's only so many hours in the day and I am not doing it at 11pm on a weeknight when I have been up since 5:30 and have to work in the morning.  I need sleep.  Get over it.[/quote]

THIS.  [/quote]

OP here.  It's not fair that that DH would sleep in, i agree.  But having to hire a sitter to go on a date as a pre-requisite to sex is freaking ridiculous.  sex is as important as sleep, except maybe to a LD spouse.[/quote]

If I wanted to date, I wouldn't have gotten married :)[/quote]

So you don't want to spend anytime with your spouse doing things you both enjoy?  Trying new restaurants, listening to live music, etc?  You don't wait a friendship, too?  Just a fuck buddy.  Wow.  You "HD" spouses sound like total raging dicks - literally and figuratively.[/quote]

I was a new poster, I'm actually a LD spouse and I was posting to be funny.

You sound like a complete psycho.  Calm down.  Perhaps you are just really angry because your marriage is not in a good place.  Fine.  But, being super angry on the internet at strangers isn't going to fix what is broken in your relationship.

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Nope not a psycho.  My relationship is actually very good now but the points I have posted here are all things I've had to recently hash out.  If you people can't take it - trust me, these are the things your spouses are thinking/feeling - too bad.  The truth hurts.  LD spouses are not all mean evil people.  In my own relationship and in several of my friends' it was/is the HD spouse who just refuses to see things from our perspective.  The more you dig YOUR heels in, the more you drive us away. When you are willing to accept that things have changed and work together on a new normal, it works out.  [/quote]

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