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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]NP, so if a boy/man is interested in a waitress, what should he do? 
1. He should never be interested in a waitress?
2. He should wait until she gets off work and then ask her for her number?
3. Ask her while he is there or right before he leaves?

Because surely you all can't be saying that men cannot approach women they see and show interest. Young people are already not coupling and that would just make it worse. And most of the day in public, someone is working, either the man or the woman. Just...based on statistics and hours of the day 
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Or he could leave his number and she call call if interested. There is no need to harass women at work. [/quote]

This. Back in the day, this was not unusual. I never called one, but I also never felt uncomfortable with that approach. Another server did reach out to a customer who did this. He had been a perfect gentleman during his meal, they bantered about baseball, and he left a note asking if she would like to go to the local minor-league team game with him on a certain date. Relevant, specific, and easy to ignore if she wanted.

I remember it because it was SO different from the usual. "Hey you uhhh wanna go out sometime?" or just a phone number on a receipt. It was a master class in how to signal interest without being creepy or threatening. [/quote]
Yes! So many creepy ass dudes defending harassment when there are totally normal ways of asking someone out. Its clear they have major issues with women. [/quote]

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