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[quote=Anonymous][quote]In my experience, if they don’t step up when everything is new and special and all [b]eyes are on them[/b], they never will. So now you know who your DH is. Get brave and rely only on yourself, divorce or no divorce.[/quote] Okay. And what would your DH have to say about all of this? He would likely have a strong response regarding the times he stepped up, your responses to this, and a different view of what happened during this time. Your statement that all "eyes are on them" is telling. Were you (and your family, friends, etc.) judging him while he was learning how to be a father? Was every problem, at least in part, his fault? There are many posters on here who immediately agree with the DW poster who bashes her DH for problems (e.g., he is not stepping up!!!!) while being the first ones to blame the DH when a DH bashes his DW (e.g., she is not being unreasonable, you are being a jerk).[/quote]
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