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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I dislike my body after having two kids. I’m fit and workout but my once perky breasts are sagging a little, cellulite, and a lot of stretch marks. I don’t feel confident body and decided to change it. I’m going to go through laser therapy and sculpting to help lighten the stretch marks and get rid of the cellulite. I’ve been looking into a breast lift ( still my natural breasts). My husband is in support of the first two but has voiced his disproval of a breast lift. I know it’s my body but I do respect my husband’s opinion. Would you get the surgery anyway despite his objections? [/quote]

Don’t do that to him. It’s not fair to demand something for your vanity that costs lots of money and puts you at risk.  He is in a no-win situation — if he objects, he isn’t supportive. If he agrees, however reluctantly, you have wasted a ton of money. [b]And this is addictive— you will want more later[/b]. [/quote]
This just isn’t true based on myself and a few friends I know who’ve had one procedure to fix something cause in pregnancy and nothing else. [/quote]

But people who have plastic surgery are inherently shallow and insecure and many of them will never be satisfied. They will just fixate on the next thing they think is wrong with them. [/quote]

You just described my sister who has had more procedures than anyone here I guarantee and still keeps picking herself apart in pictures. However that doesn’t mean OP is like this.[/quote]

It’s just YOUR sister issues. In reality many women had one surgery fixing a specific area. And then we’re done with that.
I’ve had a lipo and breast implants 5 years ago. Never went to surgeon again as I’m very happy with outcome and workout a lot to maintain the results [/quote]
By your own admission you had more than one, so pp is still correct.[/quote]

No they are not. It’s been 5 years and I didn’t have any additional procedures . Having tummy surgery improved my posture and made it easier to workout. I’m in the best shape of my life in my 40s and my breasts look very natural - the men I dated didn’t even notice I had anything done. It was a huge confidence boost for me. I’m training 15 hrs a week alongside 20 years olds

OP - don’t listen to Carens here - do it if you want 
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Sweetie, your brain needs carbs to work correctly. Stop obsessively working out and eat something. You'll think better.

Lipo or "tummy surgery" is one procedure. Breast implants is a second procedure, unless they implanted them into your "tummy".

That's two. So if you're going to call people "Carens", you should at least learn to count to two.

15 hours of "training" each week is neurosis, not health. What, exactly, are you training for?[/quote]

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