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[quote=Anonymous]OP, you were right to clue in the 22 y.o. It became your business because your husband was planning to use your daughter as a pretext. I wasn't that naive at 22. I believe some can be but older people with a home for dad and a home for mom that are hours apart is a big red flag. I wouldn't fly across the country to work for a separated couple. You did the right thing to tip her off. If you want to stay married, I think this incident marks the point at which you've shifted to a one-sided open marriage. You and your husband should agree going forward on what he publicizes or doesn't regarding his love life to your minor child. The more ethical and calm you behave towards each other, the less the impact on your daughter. Again, she might have figured this out anyway. And might well have a younger stepmother in the future. She will need to decide what she thinks about it. I think OP made the right call to surface the hidden agenda. OP is NTA.[/quote]
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