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[quote=Anonymous]OP here. I have handled things poorly with DD and I don't know how to make it better. I asked her if it would be OK for her if we choose another math tutor. Of course she asked why, and I told her because daddy considers himself to be an appropriate romantic partner for the tutor and I don't want to put DD in the middle of that situation. I feel like this is a turning point in DD's childhood. She has asked questions and labeled her dad a "predator." She is distancing herself from her dad. I should have made something up or I should have asked the tutor to announce that she quits. I feel like I just destroyed her childhood,when my goal was to protect her. I feel terrible. By the way, I talked to the young woman and it turns our she had no idea that STBXH intended to start a romantic relationship with her. He invited her, told her to bring a friend, and made it sound safe by proposing outings with DD. Friends tell me that she couldn't be this naive, but I believe her. At her age I was this naive, too.[/quote]
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