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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Didn't read the paper but I always tell the kids the most important decision they will make in life is who they marry. They spend years learning book work, but not much learning how to know who to marry. Teach them with this before they are older and not listening to you.[/quote] This is true. But it’s so hard to pick well. Many people many in their 20s having only known each other 1-3 yrs, with very little hardship in their lives thus far. Life takes a lot of different turns and you just don’t know how someone will change, how they will cope with devastation and adversities, huge responsibilities, how they will parent, etc. The best we can do as parents is imprint on our children the importance of picking a spouse being a cognitive decision and not just “in love” [/quote]Telling the child that’s their biggest decision- no way in my opinion because they may decide marriage isn’t for them, also. [/quote]
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