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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I stopped reading when OP described her real struggle— making meals, surface cleaning, infant, tedium of early motherhood, and a hubs that doesn’t help clean up after the kids are in bed. She’s unhappy because married for money instead of love. Only true deep love can survive the early years of parenthood.[/quote] Totally disagree. I married for love, and I’m in the same place as OP. Miserable because I spend all day picking up after other people plus the added pressure of being the breadwinner because H only makes $80k. The deeper issue is having kids in today’s world just plain sucks. I think it was probably fine 10,000 years ago when you had an entire village to help you and only spend a couple hours a day “working”. But needing to work 60 hours a week just to survive plus having zero village plus the cost of having a child is in the millions nowadays, it’s absolutely horrible. [/quote]
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