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[quote=Anonymous]Team OP here. Here is what I would do. Obviously, do not have any more kids with him. Limit extracurriculars. No need to go buy plants. Think about whether baseball is necessary. Hire a babysitter to take kid #2 to birthday parties or whatever. Outsource yard work. Ask him if he wants to hear it. "Larlo had a problem at school today. I can handle it if you like, no worries". It su cks but cheaper than a divorce. Do this for a few years until the kids are older. Evaluate whether you want to stay married to him. See if you can get him on board with dialectical behavioral therapy "for you" because clearly "you" are the one who needs therapy. Ahem. This might make you a better partner to him. (rolls eyes). And no a grown a ss adult (GAA) doesn't just walk out on his wife and kids without word. What if you did that? What if you did it at the same time he did? At the very least a GAA says "I'm going for a walk". FFS.[/quote]
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