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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. I read all the replies and appreciate them but genuinely don't feel I was out of line. When people can be so exclusive why not push for inclusivity? I did appreciate that the parent replied to my text. I wanted to be transparent about how it made my child feel so next time there might be a bit more self-reflection. I understand not every child is invited to each playdate,  but if the opportunity arises, why not extend the offer to one more kid instead of simply changing the subject? My child clearly wanted to play. The mom in question has a large home and could have accommodated the extra child and I would have been happy to reciprocate next time. It was just an awkward situation which could have been made kinder by inclusivity. [/quote]
OP this is 17:49 from page 4.  I think you need to draw a distinct line between your own values and other people's behavior.  You have a set of values that includes self-reflection, flexibility, generosity, and inclusivity.  You can use these values to drive your own decisions and actions.  You can try to model these values for others to see.  You can ask others for favors that you're willing to reciprocate.  But with other people, you need to give them space to make their own decisions.  You need to withhold judgment.

I still think that you should look up the term snowplow parent.  I think it would be helpful for you.  Good luck.  [/quote]

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