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[quote=Anonymous]I read this differently from others. I don’t think people are being transactional, score- keeping, or mean. If I am always inviting someone to do things ( at my home and elsewhere) and they never invite me, I will assume I am just not that important to them. I am a person and have feelings as well, and I am also equally bisy with work, children, family. I happen to feel like friendships are important and so put in the work. I had one friend seek me out and specifically tell me what was going on with her and that she truly valued our friendship even if was not obvious. I have another friend I realized would never, ever visit me. I finally accepted it and now just say…I’m coming x dates and she’s thrilled. So, yes, we know how to compromise and meet others where they are when they tell us. The op is saying it’s hurtful to never, ever, be thought of if she does not initiate. [/quote]
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