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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]My cousin married the unambitious guy who while dating and before kids seemed like a great partner. He was good with kids, engaged and attentive, funny and a good time at social gatherings, and well liked all around. He had a decent job but did not have the desire to make more money or advance in his job. They talked about this and she was ok with it (at the time)

Fast forward 10 years. Turns out despite being good with kids he was not actually that good at fathering. He also slowly developed a video game addiction and some other socially acceptable habits become more addictions for him. She carried the labor or managing the household, finances and kids. His lack of ambition that was once just professional seemed to spread into all areas of his personal and home life.

His lack of ambition at work developed into a sort of indifference and lack of integrity about the work he did and there were professional problems too.

Cousin ended up divorced.

[b]I say be cautious of the man with no professional ambitions. This is not the same as the man who has passion, determination and a solid work ethic but just happens to be in work that will never be particularly high paying. The lack of integrity around work actually reveals a lack of integrity as a person and I don’t think it will end well to have such a person as a partner in life[/b]. [/quote]

+100[/quote]

A good father would be building some type of solid career to be able to support future kids. He’s saying ALL the things you want to hear bc he wants a meal ticket OP. It won’t last. [/quote]

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