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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][b]My boyfriend is an amazing man. He’s very smart, hilarious, gentle, kind, emotionally available, and very loving.[/b]

His one bad trait is that he’s not a breadwinner. His career is unorganized, he hates his job, is underemployed, and has no ambition.

We are mid-late 30s and want kids asap.

I have a good career and make pretty good money. I never planned to be the primary breadwinner though. I think I could financially swing it, if he remains supportive and I rev up my career more. if you’ve taken a similar path, any regrets?[/quote]

Is he smoking hot too?  Flip the sexes here and tons of guys would consider this partner to be excellent wife material.  Amazing-smart-gentle-kind-loving people (who are excellent cooks no less) are going to rise to the parenting challenge.  Lack of ambition is extremely common among many many excellent SAHMs, so why should it be a red flag here?[/quote]

It is obvious. Because he’s a man. No one is interested in a smokin hot low/non earning MAN. Even for a night.😆[/quote]

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