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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Most of the people posting in this thread shouldn’t be in any type of relationship, and certainly shouldn’t be married.

What a bunch of lazy, entitled, selfish asshats.[/quote]

If you’re talking about some of us saying that op is not doing anything wrong, then you should examine your own values. Why do you feel that a partner who earns more, contributes, 50 in Household chores and more than that with kids is lazy or entitled. Because she is a woman? Gross.[/quote]

No, you freaking weirdo.  Because she is LYING to her husband about how much she “works” so that she can laze around the house like a sloth binge watching crap on Netflix rather than getting off her lazy a$$ and doing the grocery shopping or the laundry every once in awhile, so he can have a bit of free time as well.  I also guarantee that she doesn’t actually do jacksh!t with the kids, she’s too lazy and self-centered.

OP is an a$$hole, and I hope her husband decides to hit her up style when the eventually divorce.[/quote]

Well, good luck to the person married to you. You seem like a [b]thoughtful, considerate, well-adjusted [/b]person.[/quote]

I don’t think you know what any of these words mean if you’re defending OP’s behavior…[/quote]

Never did I say anything about OP. Just about that comment. Name-calling, ranting, cursing… nice.[/quote]

OP. Thanks for the defense but it’s cool, I know DCUM is mostly people projecting their own problems onto a situation they know little about.

Anyway, thanks for the advice, everyone (especially the person who pointed out im afraid of his reaction, that hit the nail on the head).

I did talk to H today and he’s cool with it, even happy for me. He says he’d do the same if he could.

I guess what I’m worried about is that even though he’s laid back and pulls his weight most of the time, occasionally he does get upset when he perceives things aren’t equal. For example, it’s not uncommon that he’s supposed to do dishes while I put the kids to bed, but he’ll play on his phone or watch TV or whatever instead and leave them for the morning. Which is fine, but if I get up early to do yoga, he’ll come downstairs and see me doing yoga while there’s a big pile of dirty dishes and get snippy. [/quote]

Maybe he gets “snippy” because he works literally twice as much as you and yet you’re finding things with HIM to complain about.  You’re completely insufferable.  He must either have an affair partner or be a complete and total loser to tolerate you.[/quote]

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