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Reply to "Wife dies and husband adopts their 1 year old out to the aunt."
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I don't think OP is the horrible one in this situation. Yes, it's great that the child is growing up with someone who loves and cares for her. But it's still astonishing to hear that a fully capable human just abandoned his child. People keep bringing up situations of drug abuse, jail, mental health issues, apparently none of which apply here. He just... didnt want his child. That's definitely judgement worthy. I don't think I could be friends with someone like that. I'm glad he had a vasectomy and will not be abandoning any more children. [/quote] Then you are judging at least half of the black community, where more than 70 percent of children are born without a father in the home. They are not fighting for custody.[/quote] I think there's even a small difference between "not fighting for custody" for a child who has a mother, and completely abandoning them with no parent. [/quote] The OP didn't describe a situation where a child was left without a parent.[/quote] The mom died and the dad abandoned her. [/quote] The father didn't abandon her without a parent. She had an adoptive mother. Or do adoptive parents not count as parents?[/quote]
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