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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous] I had a college roommate who did this in college and likely throughout her twenties.  She came from a wealthy family, was at the top of our class, and got a high-paying job after graduating.  She was selective; the men she dated were older but not "old" and always attractive (though to me, at the time, all men over 25 seemed ancient). It was a power trip for her, 100%.  We discussed it at length.    [/quote]

but what exactly was the arrangement here? were these wealthy boyfriends that took her 1st class to Paris that [b]she wouldn’t have dated but for the money?[/b] Or were these guys handing her $500 after a “date”? The former is just some variety of relationship; the latter is prostitution. [/quote]

The bold may not be technically prostitution, but in effect, it is to me.

This is why when I had a primarily physical relationship with one particular man, I ensured we split everything, hotel costs, meals, whatever. I didn't want or need anything from him that wasn't sex or companionship. He would have liked to give me gifts and said so, but as the relationship was a frank and direct one already, I said that though I liked that he [i]wanted[/i] to give me things, I'd never accept them. Pity, since he had great taste. But I was getting what I wanted from him so we were on an equal footing.

If that comes off as my sounding superior, whatever. Fine. I think women who are sugar babies but have an education, a decent place to live, an income of their own, are sick. They should have sex with men they actually like and desire, rather than pimping themselves out for material cr*p and cash because they want designer bags and trips.  [/quote]

You don't sound superior at all.  Some of these women have it all, and they marry their benefactors.  Know your value in the dating market.  [/quote]

[b]If they "have it all" before they pimp themselves out, why any need to marry a "benefactor"?[/b] Oh, yes. Greed for more than "all" gives them. Their value in their own eyes is entirely based on how much they own and how expensive their lifestyle is.

And once they marry those benefactors (or don't marry them, but keep taking their money), what happens when these sugar babies/sugar wives get older, gain a pound--God forbid!!--or get pregnant?....Bye, baby, bye. But you'll say they're smart enough to stick some of that money in the bank while their sugar daddy has been sticking it to them. Hooray for their used up selves. [/quote]
Agreed. Clearly these women don't have it all, otherwise they wouldn't need old grandpa's balls.[/quote]

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