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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]It’s not a mentality, OP. It’s a disability. Educate yourself because sh***ing on people with ADHD does nothing since they already hate themselves. But by all means, revel in your superiority while your marriage falls apart. Hope “victory” feels good. [/quote]

Maybe adhd should have disclosed that more and not had kids. Or not gotten married nor had kids.

At least the current kids will be on the lookout for this and avoid it in a partner. [/quote]
I'm a DW and I did not know I had ADHD until I was in my 40s. I coped just fine until work, kids, and perimenopause made everything go off the rails. [/quote]

Nonsense.  Things can never get too difficult or overwhelming for anyone, ever.  If you were more diligent, less lazy, and not deliberately weaponizing your incompetence, your poor children wouldn’t have to suffer the indignity of being five minutes late to the trampoline park and your husband wouldn’t be humiliated in front of all the other dads (with whom he is always secretly competing) because of the cash given to a strange child rather than an instagram worthy, carefully curated gift.  You clearly just don’t care about your family.

I bet you aren’t even a navy seal - surgeon - astronaut, or even a lowly cave-diving anesthesiologist!  Because literally anyone can do literally anything if they just work hard enough.  There is absolutely no universe in which some people are more capable of some things than other people.

You lazy git.

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