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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Who else is kind of hoping the husband goes on ozempic, loses the belly, then loses the wife for a younger, thinner and prettier model?

I think OP should just divorce him and find someone who she is sexually attracted to and she has respect for.[/quote]
OP probably wouldn’t mind so much. She’ll walk away with half. [/quote]

She'll be shallow all her life. Maybe she'll find some empathy when she's old and infirm. [/quote]
It's not shallow to not find your partner as sexually attractive if they get fat. It's just not. It's not a moral failing for your body to not respond to someone else's body that is unhealthy.[/quote]

Does this go for anything that’s unhealthy?  
Like, what if your partner takes up skiing or motorcycle riding?  Is it okay to not have sex with them until they change their habits?  Or what if they get cancer or Parkinson’s disease?

What if they don’t want to see a doctor regularly?  Or they don’t take their meds every day?

None of these are some kind of physiological reaction to people having unhealthy bodies or making unhealthy decisions.  
This is all just withholding sex and affection to manipulate your partner or justify your own actions.  [/quote]
It's okay to not have sex with someone you don't want to. [/quote]

It’s not okay to refuse to ever have sex with your spouse in order to manipulate or shame them.  [/quote]

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