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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think this man plans to divorce you and you should get your ducks in a row. It doesn’t matter how much you adore the house—it is no compensation at all for what you are experiencing.

You have to figure out how to get divorced in a way that will help him disengage more. Directly trying to box him out won’t work. But something might.[/quote]

Completely agree. Esp if he works three hours away! Talk to lawyer. You’d prob get child support and spousal support. If you can’t live off 200K + child + spousal support, you have a problem. And he’d have to buy you out of the house + split other assets. But wait, you don’t want to move out of your huge and beautiful house. So you’ll just sacrifice your happiness, emotional balance, and your daughter’s understanding of what a woman should tolerate. Agree with the previous poster who said that it’s jarring how helpless some well-off people can be.[/quote]

Don’t be a b!tc&. People on this site love to sit I their beds telling others how to live. Not everyone, regardless of income, is so cavalier about splitting up their family, going through a divorce with a high-earning a-hole who can outspend her on lawyers, selling their stable home in a market where they can no longer buy into an equivalent one, wrecking their finances, ensuring they can’t retire until later than planned, single parenting forever, making their child a child of divorce, and all the ramifications that will have for generations, and bringing two dating lives and eventually a (probably gold digging) stepmother and future step siblings into their child’s life. All to continue dealing with a coparent who I guarantee you will not stop saying abusive things to her and in front of the child, and the verbal abuse could get worse in divorce and after. [/quote]

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