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Reply to "H claims that I abuse him emotionally, whereas I think it is the other way around"
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[quote=Anonymous]Agree with PPs. This is not normal behavior. Advice based on a marital dynamic without mental illness is not relevant to your situation. If he has a Cluster B personality disorder like borderline or narcissistic PD, it means that he will see all your interactions through the lens of his attachment related trauma. Living with someone like this for years deforms your own perspective on reality and leaves you second guessing yourself and trying to take responsibility for something you can’t change or make better. You need to break out of codependency and see your situation clearly. Do you have a therapist?[/quote]
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