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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This is my post. My point is that if you don’t get an offer on your visit you are going to be part of the musical chairs dynamic. You are obviously not the top choice for the school and they want you to hang around if other players commit elsewhere. I had an approach where I let my kids take the lead on the visits but at the end of the visit while in the coaches office I would step in if an offer had not been made and say a few things like “this is a family matter and we as a family need to know where my kid stands. Are you ready to make on offer or should we consider one of the other offers that have been made?” That brings it to a head. [/quote]So what were the results?  How many times did you do this, what happened, where did your DD commit - to one of those schools or one where an offer was made pre- or on-visit?[/quote]

If your daughter is a top D1 schools second or third choice does that mean they likely will never play?[/quote]Of course not.  They're evaluating sophomores in high school.  It doesn't matter what level school, she'll have myriad opportunities to improve away from a college coach's watch in the next 2 years, and then untold amount of opportunities to get better (as anyone will need to) over their college career.  Firstly, coaches will play the players they think will help them win, not the ones they liked better in 10th/11th grade.

The mantra is you have to force the coach to have to play you.  Not everyone will have what it takes to do that, but it's not set in stone in the middle of high school.
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