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Reply to "I’m breadwinner, dh asked me to help with side hustle "
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[quote=Anonymous]OP, a couple things... (1) As all the other lawyers have mentioned, your husband's side hustle makes no sense, and having another attorney (employed elsewhere!) become your secretary is a logistical and ethical morass, even putting aside the marital issues. It is a BS plan and I would stop wasting any time thinking about it. (2) [i]You [/i]should step back at work, even if it means less pay. Even if you and DH both are or become feds or the equivalent, you won't perish and should have sufficient income for a couple years (you mention no pressing expenses). This may cut resentment and also free up bandwidth to tackle your other issues. (3) Very explicitly set up childcare/household plan where your DH takes on defined tasks. Perhaps he won't but then... (4) If the above does not work, [i]at that point[/i], consider divorce. Raging on DCUM and debating how much time it does/should take to select camp is just a distraction from your problems.[/quote]
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