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[quote=Anonymous]I'm as petty AF and will not take on work left behind for me (I do far more than my share to start with)

- leave dirty clothes around the laundry basket? they go in your sink.  I'll get them out of the way but you still have to put them in your basket like you always did
- leave shoes all over the place for everyone to trip over?  i'm tossing one into a random spot, have fun finding it.  we have had this for 10 years, I can't bellieve it hasn't gotten DH to put his shoes in the rack, but it gives me an outlet for my rage about it
- leave dirty dishes on our shared desk? they're going in your nightstand.  thats full from the ones already put there? then they're going in your night stand (its right next to the desk)
- leave gross pans you didn't feel like scrubbing in the sink?  cool - i'll get them out of my way by putting them on your fancy pan rack dirty
- leave a random trail of trash, dishes, things you actually need, empty cans around the house? you'll find it all in a box in your closet to sort through

I've given up asking.  We've gone in circles around this for years and I have decided to just get things out of my way and move on.  When he asks why I can't just have his shoes in the middle of the floor I point out we have 5 people in our house, i'm not going to pick up 5 peoples worth of shoes or trip over a pile of 15 shoes in the doorway.  Our 3yo has learned to put his shoes on the rack, DH is capable of it too even if he chooses not to[/quote]

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