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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think you’re crazy to consider this because there are numerous problems with men being over 40 let alone your age. It drastically increases the risk of autism and schizophrenia.

I’m a 46-year-old woman and would never consider having another kid. Think about how that would impact the children you already have as well. Just no.

She’s only 34; she can find a man for under 40. [/quote]

What do you have against over 40 🙁 men like me?[/quote]

I have nothing against you except I don’t think it’s fair to your kids to have another kid and I don’t think it’s a good idea to have a baby at your age. Your relationship with your girlfriend will change and it will be disaster. It’s not too late to find a guy closer to her own age to have kids with. I think you’d both be settling and then in 10 years you’re gonna end up divorced again.[/quote]

Sadly, this is probably the most accurate and truthful advice. You and GF are in very different places in your lives. 
Yes, it is *possible* for your relationship to endure, for your older kids to thrive,  etc etc etc. BUT highly unlikely. Too many challenges.  And what if the baby has special needs which is highly likely to happen because of you being older?  You ready for that?[/quote]

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