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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]When I was 45 I dated someone who was 28.  She was a nice person, very sexy and attractive and super smart.  I liked her a lot.  Life differences get in the way.  I had a mortgage, a kid, divorce and things like that.  Life gets stressful.  She had no worries, just her work.  Her days included going to work and the gym and friends.  Mine was work, kid, doing stuff around the house, gym, kids sports matches..etc.  If you're divorced you know.  Things got complicated with my kid and I think it was a little too much for her to deal with.  I get that, so we parted ways.  We talked for a while afterwards but haven't in months so probably for the best.  No hard feelings though, I hope she finds someone good for her she's quite a catch.

I'm dating someone five-six years younger than me now (my ex was two years older) and it's more on the same level.  She's smart, sexy and funny too.  So more my speed.

Dating younger is fun (youngest women I dated was 24 when I was 42) and they look great, but then again you're dealing with people who do expect you to pay for everything, they haven't really discovered themselves sexually and different stages of your life.  The awesome part is you can show them stuff in bed they haven't seen before.  So hearing them say "I didn't know my body could do that" is super hot.   The downside is you can show them stuff they haven't seen before.  At this point I want someone who is like...let me do this to you I know I like it.  That's hotter to me.  Still sometime even when they're older you still get the aforementioned comment sometimes, and I'm like...who the hell have you been married to?  did you NOT have fun in bed?

Also it's nice to have someone to relate to in terms of your daily life struggles.  Younger women don't really know that.

My ex-wife has dated a couple of guys but I can tell you they're step down from me physically.  At least what I have seen of them.  So her loss in that area.  But she chose the path to divorce so meh...that's her problem not mine.

I'm happy now with someone I really like so there's that.  I hope it keeps working out because there's is something different about this one and i like it. [/quote]

The sad truth is a lot of men are very bad in bed! But hey, kudos to you for giving the ladies a good time 😘 [/quote]

Agreed. It's amazing how many men in their 40s are not great in bed, but they think they are because they have had so many experiences. Maybe going younger is better for them because the young ones also don't know what is good. HA! HA! HA! [/quote]

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