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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]One of my aunt's knew she was dying for 18 months (stage 4 lung cancer in her 80s).  She did NOTHING to prepare.  I didn't expect her to clean out her house, but at least getting her 2 kids on a bank account they could plan her funeral after she died would have been helpful.  She had loads of money and one of them was maxing out a credit card to get it all paid for.  It just seemed so silly to me.

My mom added me to her main checking account when she turned 70, just so I could have access to some money if I did need to manage something for her.  Of course we have a good relationship and I'd never abuse the situation.[/quote]

Some people shut down.

That's why it's important to do this when things are going well and you're relatively healthy.
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Some people are just weak and selfish or maybe mentally ill and paranoid. They never do what’s best, even for them. It’s all misguided by their fears of all kinds. [/quote]

Yeah what an a-hole, that woman with stage 4 cancer who was so selfish by not scrubbing everything in sight so no one would ever have to think of her again.[/quote]

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