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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here.  She's here.  She brought her husband for some reason.  She knows it is awkward and they are avoiding me.  I am fuming.

Yes, it is my fault for saying yes.  I am horrible with conflict and am I am going to be a more selfish person in the future.  [/quote]

OP again.  Can I just reiterate how irritated I am that she brought her husband and the two of them are now in the room with the treadmill, watching them dismantle it.  He didn't even greet me; they walked past me as if I am the help.  So, yeah, I guess the PP who observed earlier that the "friendship" is just one of convenience to her was correct.

Anyway, thanks for those who commented here, even to tell me I'm irresponsible (I probably am).  This is something I've known I need to work on with myself (learning to back away from friendships that are one-sided).  I lost my parents young (in college) and I've long had a tendency to hold onto relationships I should let go because of that, I think.  I'm working on it with my online therapist.  I'm going to be more selfish and more guarded in my new location.  [/quote]

I think you seem abnormally angry at your friend. If I were picking up some large item, I would take my husband.

I have a treadmill and rower in my basement I want to get rid of. I would gladly give it to a friend.

You seem to think your treadmill is worth more than it is worth. You should have just sold it for $50 or $200 or whatever price someone would have paid for it. $200 seems very petty to be this upset and angry over.[/quote]

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