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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP is continuing her SAHM lifestyle w/o a sense of urgency is the thing. She says, well I could downsize the kids into an apartment if I had to, but no one is going to let her sign a lease without a JOB. Teachers are hired on a certain cycle, which is NOW, which surely OP knows. She doesn't have the luxury of so much "processing time" at the moment when her kids need food and shelter. She should know how DH's debt impacts her with the consults she has been having. She's here to crowdsource and process more. It's not productive. Taking care of the kids is taking care of BUSINESS. [/quote] She’s supposed to dive into a new career and hire childcare for kids while everyone is grieving the loss of dad? She has affairs to get in order, a funeral to plan, she’ll likely have an onslaught of out-of-town company. This is a tricky time to be able to show up as a reliable new employee while also providing consistent care for the children. Stay in Al Anon. Hug your children. One day at a time. Meet with your attorney and see what he/she thinks you need to tackle first. [/quote]
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