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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If she pays his debt, they should get a post-nup or revise existing pre-nup to protect her in case of a divorce. [/quote] This 100%. I agree with the posters saying that you marry a person, debt and all. What I don't like is that the title says he is "pressuring her." Maybe this is OP being overdramatic. Maybe he has been nagging OP's daughter non-stop since they got married. But either way there needs to be a respectful conversation and not one-sided pressure. OP, I don't know how long they've been married, but if she's having misgivings about the situation, she needs to have a frank conversation with her husband about why she is feeling hesitant to do this. There is probably more to the story than just the debt. And if she can't have a conversation with him without him being defensive or yelling or pressuring with guilt, then that is an answer too.[/quote]
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