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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Lay off the porn. Those breasts are not real. In fact, spoiler alert, many women around here have fake boobs, too.

That doesn’t mean yours aren’t better. They just aren’t fake.

Tell him to lay off the porn and stop comparing you to AI enhanced actresses if he doesn’t want to be compared to a high end vibrator.[/quote]

Dislike terms like “not real” and “fake boobs”. Those with enhanced figures shouldn’t be made to feel less as a result of their surgery. Often this is a choice made to feel better about one’s body, not worse![/quote]

A mean,…but they *aren’t* real…and they *are* fake, so…..

I don’t get this new obsession with forcing everyone else to get on board with adopting language that denies truth just because reality is uncomfortable for you.

You can choose to get a boob job if you want to/need to, of course—but why is it necessary to your happiness for everyone else pretend those are your natural boobs???
Truth is truth.[/quote]

Boobs with implants are not fake. The muscular, fat and nipple tissue remains there. Silicone is not injected into a boob or instead of a previously existed boob. It’s placed behind the muscular tissue and a well done boob looks and feels natural. Because it’s still the same boob, just “raised” on its pillow !

So stop calling boobs fake - they are enhanced but not fake. You don’t tell people with dental implants that their teeth are “fake”, or those with leg prosthetics, right?

I get you have a fixation on boobs as these women would look more attractive to men. Yes, men love great looking boobs regardless if there is an under muscle implant there or not. That is just the fact.

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NP. Why are you so defensive? People will think whatever they want and you cannot  change that. But you can change your attitude and not care what people think about you or your body.[/quote]

The lady should then tell all elderly people their teeth are fake; people with pace makers their hearts are fake etc.

It’s fascinating how harsh are women on something that other women do to feel better about their bodies and improve confidence.

“Fake boobs” is just untrue from physical standpoint and carries negative connotation. Whereby the implants help improve quality of life to many women who had breast deformities, breast cancers, breast messed up by childbirth and breast feeding etc. [/quote]

Yes veneers are fake. Lady, maybe you should just be comfortable with choices. You wouldn’t be so defensive. [/quote]

Veneers are someone’s teeth functionally the same as regular. They are man made teeth but not “fake”. They appear and function like normal teeth.

Were you a bully in HS? [/quote]

I suggested that you grow confidence and security in your decisions.  Weird definition of a bully.  Sounds like you simply name call when you realize you do not have a strong position.  Sad.[/quote]

I’m very confident and having my boobs done improved my dating life by many times. 
What I find weird and childish is some people like to use a demeaning definition of other people physical attributes.

You seem insecure - are you overweight with big “natural” boobs ? [/quote]

This sounds like a classic case of wanting to have your cake and eat it, too.

Ma’am, if you “had {your} boobs done” that means you have fake boobs.  You don’t get to demand everyone call them real boobs, because they aren’t.  Deal with it.[/quote]

NP. I have not had my boobs “done” (more like “done in” by ~40 months of nursing) and I’m nevertheless so sick and tired of the negative labels women must be labeled by. Fake has a negative connotation, as one of the PPs mentioned, as in fake news, something not to be trusted. Why do you insist on putting down someone who has had a breast augmentation?

How about perfect boobs? She had her boobs “done,” and now they are perfect. If you’re not bothered by labels, let’s go with that one.

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Yes, it has a negative connotation and I for one mean it that way.  Unless you had your breasts reconstructed after a mastectomy or some disfiguring accident (and I realize that of course I can’t tell just by looking at you, and of course I would never share this opinion in real life), getting your breasts enlarged is freaking gross and anti-feminist and I DO look down on it.

It is extremely childish to go through life expecting to never be judged negatively for your choices.  And I’m sure you have a line for “enhancements” that YOU would negatively judge (e.g. eyeball tattoos maybe?), it just happens to be different than MY line.  And if you truly don’t have such a line (as I’m sure you will insist), then evolution has failed you.

Hope that clears things up for you.[/quote]

So fixing your boobs after cancer is ok.
What about a congenital deformity? What about tubular breasts? Unevenness? Sagging after breastfeeding to weight loss? What about just because the woman wants bigger breasts because it would be fun FOR HER? Men get sports cars and motorcycles, why can’t women get boobs?

Leaving women be is the feminist move here, not judging and preaching.

And no, I don’t have enhanced or surgically improved boobs; I have tiny pancakes and I’m not bothered by another beautiful woman who has made choices different than mine.

Love more, judge less. It’s really freeing. [/quote]

Thank you, PP- you said it all. I have enhanced boobs (size C with smallest implant I could possibly find). All I needed was to  fix the damage after breastfeeding. It 100% improved my confidence and I’m very happy for my choice. They objectively look great, very natural and my partner always compliments them. He never criticized them before the surgery, but now they definitely get more attention from him. 
I’m also a feminist, liberal democrat and donate to multiple gender equality causes every year.  [/quote]

Lol, feminist!?! Ha, ha! I’m giggling out loud all those labels you use to describe yourself as progressive and egalitarian, but still you succumbed to undergoing repeated surgeries (those little silicon bags leak, bubba) to “fix” a perfectly healthy body part. Yeah, you’re a feminist, chica. Sure, sure.

Maybe you should figure out why you base your self-esteem on your tits. And why you were upset by them looking they way they should look after doing what they were meant to do (feed young children).

You ain’t no feminist

—signed a true Libertarian feminist who despises so-called liberals and donates to multiple causes each year[/quote]

DP
You're both using a lot of unrelated labels. I think like makeup, hair dye, tattoos, and materialist concerns, this has nothing to do with politics. Plenty of strong feminists and antifeminists alike see this addition to the body as grotesque and many others as empowering. I don't think it can be part of the political spectrum if both opinions reside all across, it's not home, legal and workplace equality. It's a superficial opinion that shouldn't bother anyone if they are confident in their decisions.[/quote]

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