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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Kids can be very difficult and it is not always the parents’ fault…that said, the parents should be managing behavior in such a way that it doesn’t disrupt others (in this case, removing her from the service if she cannot behave reasonably).

Our 3rd and youngest child was absolutely terribly behaved as a toddler/preschooler. Could barely get through a casual restaurant meal with him at age 4. This after kids #1 and #2 were fairly easy- same parenting for all but standard methods didn’t work with kid #3.

He grew out of it and is a wonderful preteen now- but we had to be a bit more creative and employ some different parenting methods over the years. I don’t think this is super unusual. For some kids, it may turn out to be something like ADHD also…and 4 is usually too young to diagnose if memory serves.

Heck look at your typical family with grown kids- it isn’t unusual for “good parents” to have one kid with major issues (while the other kids are doing well)

But yes- the parents should be removing any kid who is being disruptive. BTDT many times…if a family event for DH’s side I would remove child and let DH stay (and vice versa with my side of the family) [/quote]

Of course it was your parenting failure.   If for no other reason that you knew he was unable to behave in public and, instead of getting a sitter, you chose to ruin the dining experience of everyone else with your feral brat.[/quote]

No one is getting a babysitter for one kid in order to eat at a "casual restaurant" with the other 2. You sound unhinged, using "fetal brat" on a parenting website.[/quote]

I said FERAL.  idiot [/quote]

oh that's WAY better.  LOL.[/quote]

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