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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]DD has said she was a teen that she didn't want kids. Ha-ha ok you will change your mind is what everyone always told her. No, she's never wavered. She's in her late 20s and has been married for 3 years now (with her husband for 8 years total). She just told me that she found a doctor who was willing to do a tubal ligation so she could be done with birth control. It felt like a gut punch when she told me.

DS is in his early 30s and is getting married this fall. He's been with his fiancée for 4 years and they too have told us they have zero desire for kids. I thought for sure they would have kids as she's an elementary teacher and works at a kids camp in the summer.

How do I get over these feelings of failure? I know I raised great kids but at the same time, I feel like both are being selfish and it makes me angry. Is this something therapy helps with? 
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You did not fail.

You raised smart intelligent children

Have you read a newspaper lately?

My children are grown wonderful humans they will not be having children.

No way will they bring children into the US while there is a strong chance this country continues it's slow roll to fascism.
And look at the antivaxers.  And the dumbing down of the education system. Project 2025 repercussions for women.

Trump might have the nuclear codes again. 
Trump has most likely already sold National Secrets how do you think this will end for our grandchildren?

What is happening in the world now is not a place I would bring another human into.

I completely understand my children's stance on this.

And my kids have unlimited cash, we are extremely wealthy, still hell no.

Let the bible thumpers keep procreating and destroy themselves.[/quote]

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