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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]How do people have such low mortgage balances in the DC area? Are the people responding people who have owned their homes 20+ years? [/quote] I think this thread is getting more responses from people pleased with their lack of debt. Like me! Zero. Paid off mortgage on $1m property by age 35, paid off $75k student loans by age 27. I value a debt-minimal life because it allows us to be able to afford private school comfortably on a 250k HHI, as well as decent travel a few times per year. We pay cash for vehicles.[/quote] Nothing to be proud of. You poured money into an illiquid vehicle that was likely to appreciate anyway and you could take out extremely cheap debt to cover, missing out on putting all that extra free cash flow into the stock market, which has had a massively historic run up, nearly doubling. You’d have enough cash in the market now to more than pay your house note and would be sitting on - 2.5%-3% rate. You lost millions in net worth. But at least you can brag about being debt free! [/quote] You are probably from family money. I grew up very, very poor with a lot of insecurity in my life. I now never have to worry about money again. I literally never think about it. It automatically transfers into different accounts and savings vehicles, and I spend what I want, which is modest. It has been incredibly freeing. I spend my time with my family and friends instead of worrying about managing investment property/funds. It’s wonderful.[/quote] You know why I came from family money? Because my parents, grandparents, and great grandparents could all build wealth by utilizing leverage. [/quote] I don’t even want that kind of wealth. I don’t want my kids to value wealth above all else. I want them to value education, friendships, and strong values. They have everything they need and some things they want. That is enough.[/quote] Very hard cope.[/quote] Hmm. But are you happy? I am. I have a strong marriage and great kids. Money only gets you so far. I know quite a few very wealthy, VERY miserable people. I am happy with my choices.[/quote] Cope cope copeity cope, cope cope copeity cope![/quote] If coping is having a great and financially stable life, absolutely. Why do you feel this way about someone content with less? What about your wealth and life situation makes you feel so aggressively in favor of measuring your worth financially? I am serious. The happy people I know with money don’t do this. [/quote] NP here. What are you talking about? The PP is responding to someone who completely switched the subject from money to "well I have a happy marriage." We don't now if he or she is content with less. We only know that he or she is content with his or her relationship.[/quote]
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