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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP.  I hear you.  I am by no means an Ivy or bust person - these schools are longshots for every student - but[b] it would bother me if my child decided to take a less rigorous course schedule sophomore year even though they have shown they can handle it (academically, at least) in ninth grade.  [/b]The fact of the matter is that it is difficult to get into even state flagships without taking a high-rigor schedule in the current environment.  I want my children to keep as many doors open as possible for as long as possible.  A 14 year old does not fully understand the implications of her choices, and as a parent, I think it is your responsibility to explain them.  I am also from a culture where working hard in academics is just expected, and a little stress is not seen as a bad thing.  [/quote]

If they are absolutely miserable, they can't "handle it".

I was really struck by OP's first post that she says, "I’m torn between pushing with tough love because she is young and maybe she will thank me later vs considering that maybe it is just too much for her, to let her make her own choices, and [b]to prioritize her wellbeing. [/b]"  That NOT prioritizing her child's wellbeing is even an option on the table. Seriously?? [/quote]

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