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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I love my wife and I love our family. We have 2 beautiful children, common values, and compatible parenting styles. DW is smart and has a successful career. I respect her and I am grateful to her for giving us our children.

That being said, she let herself go after the kids were born. She is an attractive woman, but she put on quite a bit of weight (the youngest is 8 by now), and she frequently looks frumpy. Of course I  would never dare to say anything and would never cheat, but I am just sad and an anonymous forum is the only place I can admit it.

Flame away. [/quote]

Go hire more childcare and drivers in the AM and after school. Or you do more. And hire a cook for the children who makes calorie rich kid food and different for those over age 40.

That way she can take a 7am Pilates class or one after work or at 9pm.

She needs more self care and Me Time. So take mental load and time load off her plate. And onto yours or hired help.

I did that for my workaholic husband who wasn’t doing a thing for the household. [b]Signed him up for an exercise class. He needed the accountability. [/b]

Getting a trainer to the house 3x a week works too. Do it.[/quote]

I’m thinking of doing this - how was it received?[/quote]

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