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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Just checking in to say thank you for this thread and another reminder to be joyful that I never married or had kids with any of the manbabies who tried to snare me as their cum hole and housekeeper/life manager.

I hate to tell you ladies, but being single and free of all this BS is really quite wonderful! :) [/quote]

Being married to a great man is even better! Weird that you’d come on here trying to make yourself feel better. You seem really happy. [/quote]

Great men are like unicorns.

I don’t come here to make myself feel better, although reading here does quickly dissipate any feelings of FOMO I might ever feel about never marrying. It’s a trap for women.

I’m working on a thesis on misogyny as manifest in the unequal division of labor in American marriages in the early 21st century after 50+ years of the second wave of the women’s movement. This place is rich with anecdotal material to supplement more formal studies of the phenomenon.

Women are getting the shaft.[/quote]

Check out HBR of division labor. They have a longitudinal study. Women are still at 60% and the deeper dive is they are to blame

I’ve talked to several friends whose husbands do a lot or they are in a period where she is busier w a project so he’s in charge of all household duties etc. And it’s still at 60% and they realize it’s their standards forcing them to clean behind him, or remind him about something. It’s crazy. And once they realize it they stop and no longer feel as frazzled.

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