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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]To be blunt, your friend waited too long to find "husband material".  I'm guessing she is decent looking and probably has a great body.  But, she's now 39 and urgently trying to get married.

\NO MAN WANTS TO DATE A WOMEN WHO IS HELL BENT ON GETTING MARRIED.

1. I'm guessing she passed on a lot of great guys who treated her well and were good looking enough in the past.  But, now she's regretting it because only losers are left.

2. She's 39.  There is a large pool of single women age 25-35 who are 2-10x more desired by men for many reason.

3. Why is she hooking up with guys after only 1-2 dates?  Are you serious?  LOL, this makes her easy and men will just leave once they get what they want.  Who hooks up after only 1-2 days besides colleges kids or kids in their 20s?

4. Stop trying to date online.  She needs to get other hobbies where there are real men around not ones looking for a hook up.

But, in the end your friend's value has decreased a lot.  As women get near 40 they have waaaay less chance of getting a real man because, as I stated before, the competition is just too much for her.  Sucks, but she shouldn't have turned away all the "good guys" I'm guessing she placed on the friend zone so many times.[/quote]

What a bunch of redpill incel hogwash. The “friend zone” is a BS concept made up by transactional Nice Guys™ who are angry that they put kindness coins in the sex vending machine and nothing came out.  Oh no, the horror of being friends with a woman! What a terrible consolation prize!

I’m getting similar incel vibes from the OP.  Same “market value” lingo, same focus on dating apps as the be-all/end-all of modern relationships, same concern-trolling about wasted fertility (with barely concealed glee that this woman who dared to pass up “nice guys” in her 20s is now getting her karmic comeuppance).  If you really care about her and aren’t just here to gloat or spread redpill propaganda, then be supportive and help her branch out.
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