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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If she is hooking up w/the majority of these men - then she is not giving off the impression that she is looking for something serious.

A better strategy would be to date different people w/o sleeping with them.
That will show a man that she is in it for real &gt; not just a fun time.

I bet her prospects will go up if she starts doing that‼️[/quote]

OP here. I think she is hooking up with them on the second date. But I agree, it is much too soon.

FWIW, she is from Brazil, and she is almost white. She is dating almost exclusively black guys. I'm not sure how that affects the dynamic.[/quote]

Okay, you agree she is hooking up with guys too soon.  So why start this thread wondering what the problem is? [/quote]

No answer from op? [/quote]

OP here. Of course I think that hooking up with guys on the second date makes the wrong impression on them. But I myself have not dated in 20 years, and people's attitudes may have changed.

I think that she is not enough of a catch on the dating market,  because of a combination of her situation, looks and age. She looks pleasant, but not hot.[/quote]

What is wrong with you that you need to talk s*#t about your alleged friend like this. You sound wildly jealous, btw. And your husband is cheating on you. Maybe you should look into being better in bed. [/quote]

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