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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I just turned 32 years old, and I am seriously considering not getting married in my lifetime. I have a net worth of 15M and a salary of 500K per year. At the same time, I do want to have children. I plan on paying someone to carry a couple of kids for me and hire a full-time nanny to take care of them after they are born. I do not see any upsides and plenty of downsides to getting married if it ends up in divorce. A pre-nup is not 100% guaranteed.[/quote] Dont have children if you feel this way about women, specifically in marriage. Youre whole plan is removed from reality and I cant tell if you have actually looked into this money-wise or you are just having a knee jerk impulsive reaction. Surrogacy, when done correctly, cost a LOT of money. Full-time nannies cost a lot of money. If you have a stressful job you will need 3 nannies, 8 hour shifts and then coverage for travel and sick leave. X a couple of kids. Children are not businesses that can be run by people "you trust" and the "money will keep them there". They are vulnerable, need lots of attention and love and proper attachment. Be more diligent about the kind of women you date and have some real self-reflection about your ability to be a husband and you may not have the problems that you seem to envision. [/quote]
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