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[quote=Anonymous]I think people who don't have this situation just cannot relate. My parents are financially secure (not remotely rich, but planned well). It is a stress free relationship based on love, emotional support. My in-laws are a financial mess, and also more emotionally selfish, not good grandparents, constantly make my dh feel bad. Dh and I are now helping them out with his grandparents' care because in laws can't even do basic things for them. It bothers me hugely to see them so inept, and it weighs on our marriage. I see them as irresponsible teens who never grew up, got tons of help and squandered it all. My dh is now facing helping THREE generations of his family. I have put my foot down on the financial part. We are not rich, and there is NO way I would ever do this to my own kids.[/quote]
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