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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think most posters are missing where the comment really came from and that is a place of hurt.  I believe your kid is hurt that his grandfather can’t be bothered to pick out a gift he would like and give it to him.  I think the grandfather is inconsiderate and should be told kids like presents that show adults care.

As a parent, I disregard 529s that I don’t have direct control over because the grandparent could change their mind and pull the money anytime.   It’s not really a gift when it’s not even in your name.   And this happens.

The grandfather is wealthy but only giving a conditional gift that really isn’t a gift.   It’s like
when my well off in-laws keep sending cards with $5 in them.  Cute when the kid is 5, but the tween can’t even buy a bubble tea with it.

Also, a 529 is a gift to parents as well as kids, but again conditional.  Cash is the only true gift since there are no take backs.

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I think lots of people are agreeing that the kid’s feelings were justified whether he was hurt, frustrated or disappointed. It still doesn’t excuse his behavior. He acted rudely to his grandparent and that’s unacceptable for a 14 year old. The parents need to help him find ways to manage his frustrations.[/quote]

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