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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I see why they moved away. [/quote]

My ILs could have written big chunks of OP's responses. We live on the other coast from them, they see their grandchildren twice a year, our kids have been cared for by a combination of daycare and nannies. We have been very happy with both, and both types of care have respected our parenting decisions and guidelines/rules in a way that grandparents would never. FIL is always saying DH could 'work from anywhere' and sending him links to random boutique local-to-FIL law firms outside of his practice area, while he's at a top major firm. It's delusional. I had an opportunity closer to my ILs and my DH shut it down immediately because he couldn't handle how overbearing and boundary-crossing they are and likes the distance, but they have no idea.

OP sounds codependent and narcissistic. [/quote]

This.  We could have moved closer to my family, but COL was more.  I shut it down.  My husband was head hunted for a role and I said no way.  We would have moved and my family would have still seem my child the same # of times they see him now and that would have broke me.  [/quote]

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