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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP, you need to say "F*ck 'em" in your head every time you think of them or see them. Don't give them more power over you than they deserve. When you see them be polite but keep it light and keep moving. Find other people to interact with and limit exposure to this group. [/quote] This is what I do with the mom group that dominates my son’s travel sport’s team. It’s tough because it’s the coach’s wife and her bestie and they always serve as team managers. They’ve got a few others in their group and seem to take joy in excluding everyone else. They make plans (hotels, meals, outings) within their group, but often don’t tell everyone else. Or they post something on TeamSnap a few days before the games so the hotel or outing is outrageously expensive or sold out. The first couple years of him being on the team, I’d ask but they would be elusive or act put out by my asking so I gave up. So now I try to ignore them and get to know the other moms better. [/quote] It works too. People like that want to see you react or get uncomfortable. Don't give them the satisfaction. Others will notice you are [b]unbothered[/b] and guess what, you will become more attractive b/c of it. (Trust me, everyone is fed up w/ Queen Bee but they are all too weak to stand up to her BS.)[/quote]
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