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[quote=Anonymous]Forgetting someone's name or that you've met them before is forgivable. Especially if you met them in passing in a school-focused event where you might have met many people. Sure, lots of people are busy and stressed out.

That is not what OP describes or what other PPs have described.

This woman has hung out with OP several times socially, where OP was invited by a mutual friend. So OP has been introduced to this woman, not just met her in passing, and has attended events where she is presumably with these women for at least an hour. At that point you can't blame it on "busy" or "you're not memorable." Even if you can't put a name with a face at that point, you will remember "oh yea this is that woman Lauren has invited out with our group several times." Come on.

Also, OP describes this woman walking up and inviting the people OP is talking with to lunch, right in front of OP. That is not "busy" that's "rude." Who does that? I've also experienced this and even if it is not intentional, it's deeply awkward.

You can claim that everyone looks the same or you're just so frazzled with holiday prep or whatever. But at a certain point, studiously refusing to learn the name of someone you've met multiple times, or ignoring her completely while making plans right in front of her, is rude. It's on you. If you don't want to be called a "mean girl" or accused of being exclusive and rude, get it together and learn her freaking name![/quote]

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