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Reply to "Yet another post about 5-6 year old boys in the women's changing/bathroom at the pool."
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I don't have a problem with boys five and under in the ladies changing/bathroom at the pool, but once they are over five, they're too old to be in the changing room with my daughter. We have a rule at the pool and if the PP brought her 8 year old into the showers, I'd complain to the attendants to enforce that rule. Eight is way too old to be in the room where my five year old changes.[/quote] I'm the person that posted a few posts above yours about taking my 8 year old son into the women's locker room with my daughters and myself. I understand that some people are not thrilled with an 8 year old boy being in the women's locker room. I'm certainly NOT trying to offend anyone! [b]But to be honest, I would much rather someone be momentarily embarrassed about a little boy seeing them nude than for my son to be molested in the men's locker room[/b]. I have told my son not to stare at nude people while he's in there with us, and to be completely honest, he doesn't. While he is showering off he just talks to his sisters and myself. He's probably at least 3 to 4 years off from puberty. And I plan on having him use the men's locker room in a couple of years.[/quote] My god, this irrational fear that every time you leave your boy alone for - like - 2 minutes with other men he will be molested is just crazy. I mean, WTH is wrong with you guys? Are you really okay with - if effect - teaching them that every male that does not = daddy is a child molester?[/quote]
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