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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If you two sat down together each day and divided what needed to be done, would he be able to do it? I'm the ADHD spouse and I make myself daily lists of what I need to do. DH and I also sit down weekly to discuss the upcoming week and who is doing what when (dinner, taking DS to practice, etc). My lists are pretty much the only way I'm able to function. I put EVERYTHING on there, even just emptying the dishwasher. [/quote] +1 [b]I know it’s not fair to my spouse[/b], but I make it clear that I absolutely need them to TELL me what to do, and then I will do it. It’s not fun for me either and I am trying my best. [b]I hope my spouse doesn’t resent me![/b][/quote] You…hope your spouse doesn’t resent you for knowingly treating them unfairly? That’s not ADHD that’s delusional. There are about 100 ways you can manage executive function without expecting your spouse to do it for you. [/quote]
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