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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I've had a crush on this guy with my job at another org for 2 years now. I keep waiting for it to go away but it doesn't. I'm sure it's not reciprocated either; doesn't matter. He reminds me of the messed up 'bad boys' I dated in my younger years. The kind that are bad for you but you like it for some sick reason.[/quote]

As a “good boy” it’s depressing how almost nobody crushes on us. It’s enough to make you want to mistreat women, but you can’t. [/quote]

Lots of women are into "good boys," if by that you mean respectful, responsible, and thoughtful. My experience (as a guy) is that lots of guys who think they are "good boys" are manipulative weaklings who want to use said weakness to manipulate women into feeling bad rejecting them. I am guessing most women don't like that. Maybe that's your problem. I don't think mistreating women is going to help you get laid.[/quote]

PP. I’m reluctant to weigh in but apparently I touched a nerve. I had meant that last part as a tongue-in-cheek statement but it seems to have been taken seriously. I’ve seen from the posters that there must be a lot of “good boys” who aren’t! I do often learn things from DCUM.  I think I’m in the respectful and responsible camp, not the manipulative camp. And I’m not trying to get laid or mistreat women, truly. Most of my friends are women, as I don’t bond well with men, and they tell me I’m trustworthy and non-threatening but not crush-worthy. [/quote]

This is your problem, Good Boy. We want nice and respectful, but not an effeminate male who can’t even hang out with other dudes. That’s not a turn on. We still need that masculine energy and you seem to bring none of it. You need to work on that. [/quote]

You’re completely right and I know it, but have no idea how to change myself. Maybe I need a spin-off thread. [/quote]

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