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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Be honest with yourself. Either way one part of your family is excluded. There are two options: 1) choose your niece and nephew 2) choose your brother You can’t have both. There’s no way you can invite your brother and tell him that his wife is not welcome. You need to accept that this your reality and stop pretending that you can still invite your brother and his children. Personally, I would tell brother that right now you feel his bio-children need support so you’re prioritizing them over his 2nd family. [/quote] You really think some early 20s adult kids want to spend thanksgiving without either their mom or their dad, with grandma and auntie? Seems unlikely they need this kind of “support” five years after a divorce. They probably meant “oh dad and his new wife are coming? Eh we will just go to moms house then because we don’t like dads wife”. Which is fine. Shrug. [/quote]
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