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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I am probably going to stir the the pot, but I can't help it.  Reading your posts, I was wondering if you were a different ethnicity.  The reason is...and I am only going to speak for myself and what I think, is that other ethnicities tend to be more comfortable with their bodies, and think that they look great at a certain size (which is great). However, the weight and size a woman of color thinks is beautiful, a woman like me would think (I am fat and need to lose weight).

So I think to answer op's original question (which I kind of forgot at this point), is that everyone has a different perception of their body.  I might think, wow I look good in a bikini, but you might think, dang, she needs to cover up!

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That's true to a certain extent. But I did say I'm not happy with my weight, so not sure where you get I'm comfortable with it. I was comfortable at 160 and that's what I'm aiming for.

Here's me in my bikini in Bermuda (which is after 3 children). Not perfect, but based on where I am now, I'll take it!

[IMG]http://i8.photobucket.com/albums/a46/ChocLot/Me.jpg[/IMG]

Wow...

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Oh lord. Really, I'm not trying to be harsh, but no, this is not attractive and fabulous or probably all that healthy. This is fat. Look, I'm sorry, the truth hurts. I think you have a skewed perception of yourself, but hey, go right ahead and feel great about yourself. I'm finding it really odd that you keep posting pictures of yourself.[/quote]

Wow...if you think that's fat, then you and I will probably never agree on anything re: weight. LOL. I love having curves and felt sexy as hell at this weight. Got plenty of attention too (by all races, so it wasn't a black guys like chubby girls thing). I lean more towards loving the body shapes of Marilyn Monroe, Kim K & Beyonce, not Giselle & Natalie Portman. So, if you think those last two are great bodies, then you're right.....our perceptions our definitely different![/quote]

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