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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]For those asking why her DH might take the hotel notepad if he was with the AP -- he travels for work. I doubt he has to book a room for a one hour fling in their city. That's not what I would be thinking anyway.

It's possible that his AP was staying at the Fairmont, and instead of staying at his own hotel for his conference (or whatever it was, where a coworker might see him/them), he stayed with AP the whole time. How would OP know? She wouldn't. And yeah, he would very likely do some work in the hotel room and end up taking the notepad home with him.

To me, it's suspicious that after OP saw the notepad on his desk, it disappeared. I'm assuming DH saw OP looking at it -- and then hid it? Yeah, very odd.

Still, this is not enough to confront. I would not mention the notepad again, but these little things (no sex, short fuse, no date nights) might add up some day. I hope not.[/quote]

So you used: Might, possible, very likely, assuming.

In other words, speculation galore.

You're another person here to fuel OP's suspicions when she still hasn't said that she has any other reasons to suspect OP of cheating. But instead of telling her to be an adult and simply ask about the notepad, you're another amateur detective assuming and hinting your way to the conclusion he's possibly, very likely, might be cheating, even if you don't come out and say so directly.

FFS, OP, if you're even still reading this thread, just ask. "I saw a notepad from the Fairwhatever Hotel on your desk. I didn't know you'd stayed there. Where'd that come from?" But this whole thread, which has derailed into discussions of which hotels people use to cheat etc., has grown ridiculous and off the original topic.[/quote]

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